So I’m sitting here waitin to get my hair cut and I started to think. *laughter pause*
done laughing yet?
*more laughter pause*
the brain has a certain aptitude to try to make certain thoughts reality. It can take the most innocent of things, twist it around and turn it into something more than it should be.
I’ve learned recently that when there is an emptyness your heart tries to fill it as fast as possible.

That all may sound like a bad thing, when actually it’s not. It’s the heart trying to heal itself. It tries to fill that void faster than the brain wants to let it and in doing so tricks the brain into accepting it.

Some people call it a rebound. I call it healing.
I had a discussion with a friend about rebounds and she said that a person needs it. I disagreed saying that it’s not needed. I see now that it is needed as part of the healing process.
The brain and heart need to get back in synch and this is part of the process.

Healing is hard and does not happen overnight but it happens and sometimes somethings are out of your control. At that point try to go with the flow and attempt to be rational. It’s not always possible but one has to at least try.

Yeah. I think I need to think less.

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